Are You Addicted?
A Review of "Addictions:
A Banquet in the Grave" by Edward T. Welch from Justin Erickson
Our culture
is in crisis. Because of the moral anarchy that pervades society,
decadence and self-indulgence surround us at every turn. But that is
not all. We also face the constant pressure from the world to
conform to its standard. We are being pressed into the corruption
mold. Those who are in the church are not safe from these attacks
because we still walk in the world.
Sometimes
there are those in the church who become entangled so deeply in the
mire of sin and indulgence that they cannot get out. They taste the
poison of sin and begin to convulse; they nibble on the bait of
pleasure, become hooked, and cannot get free; they cut their own
throats with the razorblade of excess and cannot stop the bleeding -
they need help!
Maybe you
know someone like this. Maybe this is you. Edward Welch, a Biblical
Counselor has absorbed the task of writing the definitive work to
this day on dealing with what is most commonly referred to as
"addictions." In our culture, psychologists have relabeled
sin and given it a more soft and flowery name, like
"diseases" and "disorders." Instead of
drunkenness, it is called alcoholism (making the alcohol rather than
the man the problem). Instead of lust, it is called sexual
addiction. Instead of rebellion and disobedience, it is called
Attention Deficit Disorder. Instead of selfishness and despair, it
is called depression. Instead of fearing man, it is called
co-dependency. Instead of sorcery (the Biblical name given to drug
abuse), it is called chemical dependency. To give a fair name to a
foul sin is to minimize the effect that God desires to have in the
life of the sinner who must take up full responsibility for his
actions.
The term
"addiction" is not really an appropriate description.
"Life dominating sins" is better. Welch makes the point in
his book that this label of addictions is the one that our society
uses to describe the harsh and entangling struggles that dominate
our culture and too often our churches. Thus he redefines addictions
from bodily disease to soul dominion caused by sin, and uses the
term redefined throughout the rest of the book.
He says in
this book that to become entrenched in a sin, particularly those
sins that fall under the category of "lust of the flesh,"
is like digging for dinner in a graveyard. The gross imagery
perfectly describes what sin is like, as contrasted with the banquet
feast that we enjoy at the dining table of King Jesus' pleasures
forever (Psa. 16:11).
For those
hurting, Welch offers sound Biblical help through the power of the
Word of God in the hand of child of God enabled by the Spirit of
God. He argues for a return to the power that is available through
the Gospel to break through to those dominated by sins of
self-indulgence.
He also
laments the sad reality that the church of today has relegated those
so ensnared to the "professionals who are more qualified to
deal with these issues." The church, in his estimation (and I
believe he is correct) has defaulted in her responsibility to reach
out to and help by not dealing with issues like drug abuse,
drunkenness, pornography, etc. Therefore, the only helps people can
turn to are institutions like AA, which lead them to a "higher
power" rather than teaching them how to glorify the one and
only God. Thankfully, some organizations, as an extension of the
local church have taken it upon themselves to partner with the
church in this task and provide Biblical help. A list of reputable
ones is included in the back of the book.
As far as
helping the enslaved, Welch brings Biblical diagnoses to the sins
themselves by showing that the problem is ultimately that of
idolatry - and the disorder is not one of chemical problems, but of
worship problems. Worship of self, pleasure, substances, approval,
etc. all stand in the way of the true worship that the created was
made to render to His Creator. Biblical descriptions of sin and its
solution are given in chapters 1-3.
Chapter 4
focuses on the descent into the sin, and how it captures and cages
the sinner. One thing I appreciate about Welch is his detailed and
practical descriptions of a person who is struggling. It gives
things to look for in a person who is caught, how to help them if
they are denying their problem, what you should do to help them in
terms of love and consequence, and what to do if this person is a
child, a spouse, or even you. Welch also includes sample role-play
discussions to model how to approach someone in an
"addiction." He gives practical examples and advice from
his many years of dealing with such issues in his own personal
counseling.
As the book
continues, Welch unfolds the Biblical process of change: the role of
God, the church, Christian friends in the life; the proper heart
motivation to change; dealing with the fallout of years of deceit
and betrayal; and how to implement consistent patterns of righteous
living that will keep you far from the sin forevermore.
As I started
to read this book, I found myself thinking I do not have
life-dominating addictions, and so this will be a good one for the
file. However, after further reading, I learned to take the
principles of this book and import them into the daily struggles
that all of us face, and found myself needing what he had to teach
from God's Word. I also got the most double-takes and stares as I
read in public, more than any other book I have ever read…. Makes
me wonder how needed the help is, which Edward Welch offers in this
volume. It is highly recommended to you as the definitive work on
dealing with the lust of the flesh. Stop picking in the trash for
breakfast, and start dining with Christ!
From
the Back Cover
A Worship
Disorder. Will we worship ourselves and our own desires,
or will we worship the true God? Scripture reveals
addicts' true condition: like guests at a banquet thrown
by "the woman Folly," they are already in the
grave. (Prov. 9:13-18). Can we not escape our
additions? Following Jesus, we have "immense hope
that God can give power so that we are no longer mastered by the
addition."
About the
Author
Edward T.
Welch (M. Div., Biblical Theological Seminary; Ph. D.,
University of Utah) is a counselor at the Christian Counseling
and Educational Foundation in Glenside, Pennsylvania, and
professor of practical theology at Westminster Theological
Seminary in Philadelphia. He is author of Blame It on
the Brain? Distinguishing Chemical Imbalances, Brain
Disorders, and Disobedience and When People are Big and
God Is Small, and is a frequent contributor to The
Journal of Biblical Counseling.
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